Raat Yun!!

Something that takes me to an entire different world...
This piece is just too amazing...

"Raat yun dil mein teri, khoyi hui yaad aayi
Jaise viraane mein chupke se bahaar aa jaye
Jaise sahraon mein haule se chale baad-ae-naseem
Jaise bimaar ko be-wajaah quraar aa jaaye"

Bond!!

A dialogue from "Bride Wars" dedicated to my most sweetest friend!!

"Sometimes in life there really are bonds formed that can never be broken.Sometimes you really can find that one person who will stand by you know matter what;Maybe you'll find it in your spouse and celebrate it with your dream wedding,but there is also the chance that the one person you can count on for a lifetime, the one person who knows you, sometimes better than you know yourself, is the same person who's been standing beside you all along."

Life is hard!

They always say time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself... When i hear somebody saying "Life is Hard", I am always tempted to ask, "Compared to what?"

This was a forwarded SMS sent to me by my friend. I pondered upon it for a long time. Wondering "Compared to what?" I couldn't find any answer.

Whenever i have hit a road-block in my life, I've said that Life is hard. Looking back into the years gone by, I'm tempted to say.. definitely Life has not been a bed of roses. I have had my ups and downs for the same. But, don't we all have it. Doesn't that what 'LIFE' is all about?

I often wonder, if things had worked the way I wanted, If things had moved the way I had planned, how my life would have turned. I would definitely would have been happy all around. And would have become over-confident with passing time. As in nothing 'BAD' can ever happen Lot's of things planned in life, do not fall into place, and we always end up saying 'Why Me?' Just to sound optimistic, I usually say, am God's favorite, he's concentrating on me that is why am getting all these hardships, or he wouldn't have bothered how things are moving in my life. He wasn't me to become more stronger in this course of life.to me.

As one of my friend says.. don't say 'Why Me' say 'Try Me'.. and you'll find that Life won't be tough any longer'!!

Cribbing.. Am I?

I used to hate this word cribbing, but then I guess I have started cribbing. And have been doing it continuously for the past few months.

I have been so much into my own problems that I've forgotten that other people might also just want a shoulder to cry on or someone to hear them out.

My cribbing and my mood swings have taken a toll on my friends also. I've hurt them in all possible ways. In fact I would say I've taken them so much for granted and never given a thought that they might also need me. They have started getting irritated.

Everyone has problems, and no problem is so big that it cannot be resolved. I guess I've got into the habit of taking problems onto myself and then gaining some self pity. I've become a person who wants continuous consolation.

No, this cannot be me. I've been in this battle with life.

This is my promise to you that I will stop cribbing and be back on track...

I still love life and its problems ;)

Friendship...

I believe friendship is never created, nor do you specifically search out for friends. It is like love, just happens.

You meet someone, you talk and then it clicks. If it doesn’t you just smile and leave. To meet again without any feelings, just a 'Hi!'

When I landed up in Pune, I had no friends. I was totally lost for some time. My mom told me to make friends and not be alone.

I was not looking out for friends. As usual I was 'All By Myself'. But, I was not introvert this time. I went out of the way talking to people, just making acquaintances. I talked to people who joined with me. I talked to people travelling in the bus with me. Believe me, coming from my side, it was a huge effort.

But, one is never alone. I did click with few people and have made some good friends. And with that learnt few lessons in life. Good Ones and Bad Ones.

The first and foremost is that friendship is a give-give relationship. One should not treat it as a give and take where in if you have done so much, the other person should also reciprocate in the same manner and as much. It doesn't work this way. It becomes a business then.

The second thing I have learnt is expect nothing. The day you do, you'll be hurt. And that comes from sheer experience.

I am not too experienced in life. It's still a learning phase. Some people whom I assumed to be friends are not and others are. We believe that we are good in judging people, but in the end we are all human beings and can make mistakes.