What's your perspective?

Everyone has the right to have different perspectives. But, emphasizing your point in a manner of being right and having experienced it all, is crossing your limits.

1. Mom's and Daughters are not best friends. How can anyone say it so emphatically. Maybe you don't hold such a relationship. I'm not stating nor refuting this statement. I'm pretty close to my mom to the fact that a close friend of mine states that my umbilical cord has not been cut yet. In fact I'm close to both my parents. I talk to them and do a video chat with them twice a day. Right now I have the time and the ability to do, so I do it. This way my parents don't feel that I'm quite far away and are comfortable. I'm also comfortable with the thought knowing how they are doing at all time. Sitting so far away and not being able to support them at this age, this is the least I can do. Unfortunately, for some what I do is wrong. I should not be so attached to my parents. I should slowly lessen that up. But, I wonder why? When that time will come, it will happen. Why should I reduce it now?
2. This is a wonderful country and you should not yearn to return back to your home country. Again why? I'm not saying this is a bad country. But, I don't belong here. My parents, my sister, my life is back in India. What's the harm in yearning to go back? I have made peace with myself to spend the time out here happily, but on the pretext that one day I will go back to where I belong. I do not know what fate has in store for me. But, does that mean I give up on that dream?  

I believe explanations like these make your mind go more anti. You become a rebel and force yourself to think negatively. You want to make that extra effort of proving the other person wrong. In this process what you end up doing is burning your own blood. I know it's not right. But, this time I was lucky, I didn't burn for long. I dusted it off my shoulders.\

Happy Me!